Once upon a time, a
real life story began. A little boy, nicknamed Bug was born after a
complicated pregnancy. Around 3 months old, the signs of autism
started appearing. That way just one side road in the journey of his
life. Bug was diagnosed with Asperger’s in first grade. Children
on the autism spectrum often develop a fascination with a particular
object or area of study. Bug’s was well, bugs, dinosaurs, and all
things animal. It was encouraged, as this fascination will prove
beneficial to him in life. And so a natural prepper was born. (But
don’t use that word around him….he is just a kid that likes to
play outside and eat homemade food.)
Bug Tree Climbing
After
many side tracks and branches in the road of life’s journey, we
arrive to present day. The fascination with animals has slightly
branched out to include a love of nature and being outside. Bug is
a child that struggles through the daily grind of being in a
classroom or having to focus on tasks. Put him outside and suddenly
it is a whole new teenager.
Solar Still
Bug is now almost 16. He attends a
specialized school an hour each way from home. He often talks about
animals, particularly bugs (easiest for him to go outside and
capture). He spends most of the time on the bus looking up ways to
track animals, snare animals, raise animals, etc on his phone. Yes,
the school is quite far, but it was chosen not long after 9/11
happened and it was chosen for security purposes, as well as medical
staff on hand. (Mom is on the emergency team at the school she works
at and would not be able to leave immediately to get to him. This
placement allows Mom peace of mind to know that Bug is safe while she
does her job.)
Santa Mapping Skills
Bug gets lunch at school but due to the long ride,
Mom has always insisted on extra snacks and water being carried. In
the side pocket of the lunch box is a plastic baggie containing extra
napkins, glo sticks, whistle and few other little emergency supplies
that are within rules and regulations and safety expectations. This
has paid off well for traffic on bad days, a day that an SUV ran a
red light and slammed into his bus and just other life situations.
What started out as something Mom insisted on is now something Bug
keeps filled and up to date. Bug often reminds mom that there is bad
weather in the forecast, he needs new snacks or whatever for the
lunch bag. Another benefit of Bug going to school in the city….he
knows just about every way in and out of the city (he is a walking
talking GPS system!)
Surveying
One of the benefits of the Asperger’s. Mom is
trying to teach Bug how to use a compass, but he is struggling with
that skill). As he has gotten older, he has shown Mom some of these
ways as well as able to identify safe and unsafe areas.
Bug
knows that when power goes out to wrap the freezer. He has a lanyard
with a whistle and flashlight that when the weather alarm goes off,
he puts on without thinking. Mom and Bug are always looking for new
skills to learn together as this is a great bonding time. Oh, and
Bug’s favorite skill, taste testing the homemade jerky and
dehydrated apples.
First Turkey
Bug and Mom have
frequent drills at home. Tornado, earthquake, etc. Bug has
witnessed first-hand tornadoes, one earthquake, a wildfire, and severe
weather. Bug often comes up with small drills to challenge Mom with.
Recently, in anticipation of an ice storm, the challenge was a
weekend using only alternative lighting. (Bug loves to use battery
operated lanterns in his room as his light source). Bug often wishes
for power outages. He swears Mom cooks better over an open fire than
on a traditional stove. Open fire is how most of the cooking is done
during the warmer months. (Did you know chicken nuggets taste
amazing when crisped over a fire! Did you know you can roast
Starbursts? Yummy!)
Rocket Stove Practice
This drilling has paid
off. One afternoon, where we live had an earthquake. Mom was at her
school. Bug had just gotten home from school. He immediately got
his lanyard and cell phone. Once he was in his “safe area” he
called his mom. The connection was only long enough for him to get
out that he was ok. Months later, Mom found out that Bug went
through his emergency list until he got ahold of one of his contacts
to let them know he was ok.
Bug has basic firearm training, as well as practices regularly with a recurve bow. He currently is learning how to make snares. He is learning several methods of firestarting.
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Fall & Winter Target Practice
Fishing is a passion of his. He has helped
process game since kindergarten. He is a sensory eater. He is a
picky eater. When Bug sees where the food comes from and helps in
the process, he tends to eat much better.
Fishing & the Catch
To
Bug, the way of life his mom has chosen, as a single mother
surviving a very abusive relationship and starting fresh, is not a
life of a prepper. It is a life style. One that has been handed
down through generations. Farming, gardening, livestock, hunting,
fishing, preserving, are all things that Bug has witnessed and been
part of. He has a special bond with nature that is part of who he
is and will serve him well. He may have a hard time interacting with
other humans, but with nature, he is at home. Mom’s goal through
this journey is to teach Bug important life skills so that he can go
on to have his own home and eventually have his own family.
Green Water Swimming
One
day Mom asked Bug if he would like to meet another prepper. Bug had
a meltdown. He hates the word prepper. He always says “It’s
just the way we live.” So, please don’t mention the “p” word
around Bug.
While Mom has a lot to
learn and continue to pass on, Bug has been given the basic start of
skills to continue and thrive in a life that will benefit him. Yes,
there is still a lot of room for both to grow and improve, but the
thirst for the knowledge is there. Bug’s love of nature has
encouraged him to look into various careers that he can do in that
area. The skill learning gives Mom way to communicate in a positive
manner. (Living with a child that has Asperger’s is not easy. Bug
has been hospitalized for meltdowns, routines have to be kept,
therapy done, stimulants minimalized, etc.) If it can be a Bug’s
Life, it can be your life. (187)
Tree Climbing